Sometimes I feel bad for my husband, because I know he wants me to be excited about things. Anyone that knows him, knows that he is the HYPE man in many situations. He’s the life of the party. He’s literally been the host of events.
I, on the other hand, have received many complements on my level of calmness, as well as requests on teaching my ways lol. I don’t really know how he ended up with me!
If you’ve read 20 facts about me you know that we literally met at the club. He was working/hosting a party for one of his friends and I was only there because my cousin was in town for the holiday and determined to go out.
I was standing there, pretty quiet, making jokes with my cuz and her friend. Not the type to really draw attention to myself or do much wild dancing (did that sound as old as I think it did?) Basically 2-stepping to the music and he ran up and danced on me lol. I turned and looked at him and said, “Are you having fun?” to which he replied, “Don’t worry, I’m cute” and continued to dance. It did make me laugh, and he’s been making me laugh ever since. I believe it was meant to be, but sometimes I wonder if it was a case of “Opposites attract” or something equally cliche.
I said I feel bad for him because he wants me to root for him, scream in support, be hype like he is. I can feel that. He knows that I’m supportive of everything he does and I believe in him to no end (I think). I just also know what it’s like to not feel supported, to feel like no one is excited for your accomplishments and I would never want him to feel that way.
I know he loves me the way I am. If he didn’t, he wouldn’t have married me, twice. I will continue to work on my levels.